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Dating Advice: Know How To Deal With Rejection

March 3, 2009

The ‘5 for 5’ concept could be the crappiest thing there is in the pickup artist and dating community.  They say that a master pickup artist can sleep with 5 out of 5 girls he approaches.  You will then be regarded as an AFC if you’re not a master pickup artist.  There’s no middle ground.

That way of thinking is just plain ridiculous.  Perfection in pickup DOES NOT exist.  Well, perfection does not exist in this world, anyways.rejection
Though this belief is good for business.  If guys who study this stuff believe in this crap, it means more profit for those who sell products, workshops, etc.  The ‘5 for 5’ concept is just no true even if you ask a famous pickup artist.

However, what we must understand is that these workshops and products for pickup can really help us improve.  An unskilled and shy guy can become an effective pickup artist if he wants to.  Its just that we must not fall into this belief of perfection because there is no such thing.  To believe the ‘5 for 5’ will only destroy those who train to get better.  Why?  Because the ‘5 for 5’ concept is an unattainable goal for them.

To tell you the truth, the pickup artist faces rejection as well, even if he’s the greatest one in the field.  That’s for real.  If you get to sleep with 20% of the girls you pursue, you are already a great pickup artist and even on the 99th percentile of guys.

The real sign that a pickup artist is indeed a great one, is how he deals with rejection, not how little he deals with it.

There are different skill sets that composes that effectiveness of the pickup artist.  Like slices of pizza, each part is relevant to your success.  One of these important skills is how he is able to deal with rejection.  So it is as important to practice dealing with rejection as practicing a new conversational skill or improving our energy.  It is an important part of the pickup artist training to cope with rejection in a productive manner and is a vital part of the game.

It is very crucial to learn how to deal with rejection.  If you deal with it poorly, rejection can be debilitating.  But once you have properly harnessed it within yourself, it has the power to be our greatest teacher.

That’s an important dating advice that we should always keep in mind every time a girl says ‘No.’

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